Do your conversations constantly fall flat because all do is ask the boring and dull questions?
It’s all in the power of your own self-belief.
Self-belief can be extremely empowering if you harness it effectively, but it can also be the most crippling force behind how we act around and communicate with other people.
Watch this video to get an understanding behind why you are doing this, and what changes you need to make to start becoming a great conversationalist:
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man…even I want to go out with you man. I want to be threatened and hate but..I…just..can’t.
this was really good, and I can tell that you are really receptive and engaging, you have woken me up
Great advice man. Your awesome.
I have a question. I work at a hospital transporting patients. I am in a elevators a lot with sick patients and i find it hard to engage in conversations with them and the nurses and other people I come in contact with. Do you have any tips that can help me?
This guy talks a lot of sense. I mean if you’re talking about something that you’re not even bothered about how can the person on the other side of the conversation truly give a monkeys.
Start paying attention to everything around you. Everything that’s happening, what people are doing, saying, wearing, things that are going on, every detail. Think about what you could say in that situation. Think exactly about your impression and reaction in that moment and the thoughts that are going through your head. Then you say exactly what is in your head to whoever is right next to you.
You’re holding back because you’re worrying too much about what other people think of you.
sounds like a regular PUA haha. but i have one suggestion for you (and this might just be me) you do this weird thing when you talk for awhile then run out of breath, you suck in air through your teeth before you start talking again… kinda annoying.
Ironically enough, when i clicked on this video to figure out how to be better at conversations, my headphones stopped working. FML
drink some water man cos it’s annoying
Awesome Advice
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Half Japanese/Half Latin? Man, you could make 100 convos just from that. Good advice. After reading a ton about PUA, I think its better for me to improve my convo skills. Nice video. thx
good advice
So many gulps. I don’t think that will help you in a conversation
Thanks for watching Dylan, more videos on the way…
Thanks for the advice man!
My mind is blown… I didn’t think all that much of it when I first came across this video, but this had some great information… yep… great information… I could go on for hours about it… I think I need practice.
Glad you got something out of it Carlos. Keep at it man, it’s all practice and experience!