Do you find your conversations with the opposite sex tend to be dull and boring?
Are you stuck in a rut when you try to strike up new conversations, especially with women?
Find out why this is happening and learn what you can start implementing to change this recurring behavior. You may be surprised at how simple it is to understand your inner thought process when you start looking at it from a fresh perspective…
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Hey, I hope this is related to what your were saying.
I am happy with my lovely, and enjoy it. I believe I can be my own best friend.
I also don’t really have that much problem talking to people, although I could always improve.
What my issue is, and it really gets me, is my main passion is stand up comedy (see, not bad at talking). However, as much as I truly am passionate about it, I hit a mental wall every time I come close to bringing it up
I don’t get it, its not that..uncool or anything…as far as I know. But…I suppose its the assumption inherent in it, that I am a funny guy. Then everything funny or even interesting I’ve said so far is thrown into a harsher light, at least in my mind. I suppose it would be like saying your a conversation or dating expert, wouldn’t it just undermine you (and not even in a cute self deprecating way…self deprecation is cute, right? Cause it’s all I’ve got. See, there I go again).
Just discovered you tonight and watched 4 of your videos. You’re the man
thank you for all of your advices
I agree with you Shogo that everything we say is a deep reflection of what is going on in our own minds at any given moment in time. For instance, in cognitive psychology this concept is encomapssed in that diverse approaches that share a concern with how consciousness, or the human mind, works is explored. Mapping the structure of the intellect, and then applying the maps to improve therapy, which are two aspects especially relevant to the study of personality.
you rock. I followed all the information on your videos and got to the first date any advice?and the two things they changed I had the balls to ask a girl out. and the balls to be confident
This sounds very interesting. Is there any literature you can recommend on this?
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How did your first date go??
Thanks! More coming soon…
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How do I ask pointed questions that will always get a response?
oh god when you were talking about lifestyle I was thinking to myself, “stop playing so much halo,” and then you actually said it and i burst out laughing.
How to pick up a girl in class an get her number.
The essay really did help me out
I like this guy…
maaan. i just watched your vids. i wanna talk to u and ask something about the girl i like. your video was great by the way!
Good videos man, you need to make more though
i dont go out because i dont have friends
Dude you’re so good at this. If you want to go down this path, it’s yours for the taking! I like the website design too!
Do you want me to do a video on this?
You should make more videos like this. Very helpful :)
More on the way…
What I’d do is I’d drop the thinking of “picking up”. She’s not an object, she’s a person. Just go talk to her and get to know what person. Then if she feels something you want to get to know then ask for it.. but drop that creepiness out of it.
Hey Shogo, good vids, great info. We met briefly a while back in NYC. My comments to this video are:
1. I don’t and never have played video games.
2. I almost never watch TV (maybe 2 hours a month)
3. I’m not a keyboard jockey.
4. I don’t watch sports.
5. I do workout as often as I can but never more than 4 days a week.
6. I do go out for the purpose of improving my social and seduction “skills” and naturalising them.
However,
7. I’m mostly involved in temporary but constant, random and unexpected boring activities that are critical to my well being. If I replace or remove anyone of these critical tasks I risk becoming homeless, going to jail, going broke or any number of unfortunate outcomes – kinda defeating the purpose of making a better life for myself.
I know this is tough one and I’ve been dealing with it for several years. Your thoughts ?
Hey Danny, can you be more specific about #7?
Are you talking about work or are you saying that you have a lifestyle routine that you have to stick to for your own wellbeing? What percentage of your life does this consume?
Subscribed to your channel Shogo !! Really good honest advice !!
Ok I got an questions about this girl my bro put me on with an the convo been somewhat boring she doesnt have a bf but in my eyes I would love to be that person any advice you have to spice up my text an call conversation